What happens when you have a new love interest?
Especially when he’s a hottie, fresh from the oven baked with goodies!
I know someone who has a new love interest. And she’s super excited about it.
You know how you’re longing for something good and it finally arrives, like Nigeria winning their second match in the World Cup after being beaten previously by Croatia…..that’s the feeling.
She fell down while highlighting from a keke (a tricycle). Now I don’t know if she was overtaken by the hunk sitting close to her or the packaging of his scent or the way his eyes measured everything around her….. I just can’t tell. But she fell and this was a first fall in years…
Is she already falling for him? Love at first sight?
I’m not totally sure.
So the guy, called. Oh well, yes now, you didn’t think they’ll exchange contacts for business sake? He’s a smart one asking her what she does and getting her business card for the purpose of continuing the “business” discussion..
She knew he really meant “business”, she wasn’t fooled so she gave him her card and hoped he’ll call…….
He did call, she got excited cos she liked the sound of his voice but she knew beyond the rhythm that there’s a lot to the song that would keep the rhythm worth every move…..
Now what happens when there’s a new sparkle that lights up every path you walk on.
See there’s this kinda happiness like that. You see everything begins to excite the person. No more temperaments, just sweet happiness. The person is ready to do chores without hesitation.
P. S. If I am the person’s mother eh the kind of work I will send him to do, Chai!
There’s a whole new level of packaging. The story will change o; from dress sense to make-up, even voice tone and vocabulary, everything changes!
The social media handles aren’t left out on this new touch, Instagram is blessed with well angled perfect lighting selfie, motivational quotes and happy lifestyle…
The little light begins to shine brighter, through constant communication and make believe moments. The time no longer needs to be fast, the days no longer need to run (who is chasing them), the fight no longer needs to be lost as this is the beginning of a new era………
It begins to pop up, the funny attitudes, the not-straight-forward-answers, the longer times apart, the different views about important things, etc and then you begin to wonder why the sparkle no longer sparkles
What happened? What did we loose focus of, What did we fail to see?
How can you maintain a new love interest, or maybe its just what it never was!